In American culture tips are always optional but often expected for many areas of service. Always refer to your contracts prior to tipping, as the tip is sometimes included (especially with your caterers and bartenders). A ‘thank you’ card and positive reviews on your vendors websites also go a long way. For the vendors you will be tipping on the wedding day, place the money in an envelope with a card and ask your best man or host of the evening (such as father of the bride) to pass out accordingly.
Protocol: Expected (depending on officiant; some would prefer a donation to their place of worship)
Standard: $50 to $100
When to Tip: After rehearsal
Protocol: Expected
Standard: 15% to 20% of service total
When to Tip: At the end of your service
Such as those delivering wedding cake, dropping off flowers, tent set up staff, etc.
Protocol: Expected
Standard: $5 to $10 per person
When to Tip: At the end of delivery
Protocol: Optional
Standard: $50 to $100
When to Tip: At the end of delivery or mailed at a later date
Protocol: Optional, yet preferred
Standard: $15 to $50 per musician
When to Tip: At the end of the service
Protocol: Optional, yet preferred
Standard: $50 to $100
When to Tip: At the end of the service
Protocol: Optional
Standard: $50 to $100 per photographer
When to Tip: At the end of the service
Protocol: Optional
Standard: $50-$100 per videographer
When to Tip: At the end of the service
Protocol: Optional
Standard: $50 to $100
When to Tip: At the end of the service or mailed at a later date
Protocol: Expected
Standard: 15% to 20% of service total split amongst them or $200 to $300 for the maitre d’
When to Tip: At the end of the service
This includes your getaway car service, shuttle service and parking attendants
Protocol: Expected
Standard: 15% to 20% of service total
When to Tip: At the end of the service
Protocol: Optional
Standard: Up to $500 or a nice gift
When to Tip: At the end of the service or mailed at a later date
